When Life Changes, So Can You
- Chantal Fourie
- Jun 2
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 1
Transition Is an Invitation to Transformation
“I don’t know who I am anymore.”
It’s a whisper we hear in the quiet aftermath of big life shifts - a daunting career move, retirement, divorce, the last child leaving home, the loss of someone we love. These moments of transition leave us disoriented, untethered. Something familiar has ended, but we haven’t yet arrived at what’s next.
At Pragshta Collective, we hold these tender in-between spaces with reverence. Because transition isn’t just an ending - it’s an opening. It’s not just uncertainty—it’s an invitation to transformation.
The Vulnerable Magic of the In-Between
Western culture often sees transitions as problems to fix or phases to rush through. We’re expected to “move on,” “stay positive,” and “figure it out.” But transformation doesn’t work on a deadline. It requires space, reflection, and courage.
In Japanese culture, there’s a concept called “ma” - the pause, the gap, the space between things. It’s in this space that something sacred happens. The becoming...
Psychologist Bruce Feiler, in his book Life Is in the Transitions, shares research from over 500 life stories. His findings show that we each experience an average of three to five “lifequakes”—major events that reshape our identity. What determines how we emerge isn’t the event itself, but how we move through it.
In other words, transformation isn’t a single moment—it’s a creative process.
The Neuroscience of Change and Identity
Our brains are wired to seek patterns and familiarity. When a transition disrupts the narrative we’ve been living - our role, our routines, our relationships - it activates a neural alarm system. That discomfort you feel? It’s not weakness. It’s biology.
But here’s the miracle: The same neuroplasticity that helps us recover from loss also helps us rebuild meaning. New neural pathways form when we engage in intentional reflection, creativity, and embodied practices like journaling and art-making.
These are more than just “self-care” practices, they’re how we reorganize our inner world when the outer world no longer feels familiar.
What If This Isn’t the End, But a Reintroduction?
At Pragshta Collective, we see transitions not as interruptions, but as invitations. Invitations to pause. To examine what we’ve outgrown. To ask:
Who am I becoming? What wants to emerge through me now?
Our programs guide you through these sacred thresholds using art, neuroscience, and reflective coaching. We don’t offer quick fixes, we offer quiet space. The kind that allows transformation to happen from the inside out.
This is not reinvention. It’s remembrance. A return to who you really are beneath the roles, routines, and responsibilities.
Reflection Prompt
What part of you is waiting to be reintroduced? In this season of change, what would it mean to stop striving for answers - and instead listen for what’s rising within?
Let yourself journal this out without judgment. Trust the slow, unfolding voice within.
A Gentle Next Step
If you’re navigating a life transition, you are not alone. These in-between seasons can feel isolating, but they are also rich with possibility.
Through our guided journals, workshops, and creativity-based experiences and 1:1 coaching, we help you turn the page - not with force, but with curiosity.
You don’t need to know what’s next to begin. You only need to be willing to sit with what’s now.
We invite you to explore our Rediscover Your Creative Self journal or begin your journey with our free ebook.
Both are designed to hold you softly while you find your way forward.




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